Escorts Recommend These Dirty Ideas to Try in the Bedroom

Sex ruts happen. Even if the chemistry’s great, doing the same routine—same positions, same finish—starts to feel like takeaway on repeat. You don’t need a dungeon to shake it up. You need a plan, some lube, and a sexual deviant who’s up for trying things properly.

Below are ideas most couples skip, presented with a brief step-by-step to help you make the most of these naughty bedroom ideas.

1) Edging & Denial

What it is: keeping your partner right on the brink, then backing off. Done in waves, it makes the final orgasm hit ten times harder.

How to try:

Watch for the signs: short breath, tense thighs, hips chasing your hand/toy.

Push them to a 9/10, then ease off — lighter strokes, slower rhythm, or pull back completely.

Repeat a few times before finally letting them come… or don’t. Denial itself can be the kink.

Spice it up with blindfolds, cuffs, or rules like "count to 30 before I touch you again."

Cristal, one of the most popular escorts London has to offer, has built a loyal client list on this alone:

"I’ve had guys begging me to let them finish after some time. It’s always worth it in the end, though, and they always agree. If I spend 30–40 minutes keeping a man right on the brink, it often ends in the best orgasm of his life. Their words, not mine."

2) Anal—for her and him

Basics:

• Lube — more than you think you’ll need.
• Hygiene — clean nails, clean toys, condoms if you’re swapping.
• Tempo — slow pressure, pause, breathe.

For her: start with circles around the rim, then a finger, then a small plug. Try spooning or stomach-down with a pillow for comfort. During sex, plugs add fullness, or swap them out once she’s ready.

For him: the prostate’s 2–3 inches in on the front wall. A curved finger or slim toy with a gentle “press and release” is all it takes. Pegging later? Slim dildo, lots of lube, and let him guide.

3) Tease-and-Torment Games (how to keep them begging)

What it is: sex stretched out into a game. One of you is in charge of when, how, and if the other person gets what they want.

Ways to play:

• Strip games: poker, dice, Jenga with rules. Clothes come off slow, tension builds before anyone’s touched.
• App-controlled toys: a remote vibrator or cock ring in a bar, with one of you holding the phone. Watching your partner try to hide their reactions is half the fun.
• Restraint + rules: tie their hands and make them ask permission before you move on. Every “please” makes the release sweeter.

Remember to keep a balance. If you tease too long without small rewards (kisses, strokes, a quick grind), frustration turns sour. Also, dirty talk is your best tool. “Not yet… beg harder… tell me what you want.” It amplifies the torment.

4) Foot Fetish Fun

What it is: giving sexual focus to feet — massaging, kissing, licking, or using them for stimulation. It’s one of the most popular fetishes worldwide, but most couples never touch it.

Beginner moves:

• Start with a foot rub — oil, lotion, or even massage candles. The arch and between the toes are packed with nerves.
• Kiss or lick slowly; gauge the reaction. Some partners melt the second you put lips on their toes.
• Slide your cock between their feet with lube ("footjob"). The arches can mimic a tight grip, and you control the pace.

5) Impact Play Beyond Spanking

What it is: using tools beyond the hand — paddles, belts, crops — to create sharp, thuddy, or stingy sensations. Done right, it’s more about the rush than the pain.

Tool guide:

• Hand: warm, personal, easy to mix with caresses.
• Paddle (flat): spreads the sting, gives a satisfying thwack.
• Belt: heavier, leaves a deeper mark; best across the ass or thighs.
• Riding crop: precise, stings sharply in small spots.

How to start safely:

• Agree on signals ("green/yellow/red" or safe words).
• Stick to fleshy areas — ass, thighs. Avoid spine, kidneys, joints.
• Alternate hits with soothing rubs. That contrast keeps the body craving more.

Escalation tip: aim for rhythm, not brute force. Start with light taps and build. Most people enjoy the surprise and sound as much as the sting.

What Will You Try First?

Keeping sex fresh doesn’t mean reinventing the wheel. It means pushing edges, flipping dynamics, and finding new ways to get filthy together.

Whether it’s edging until you’re begging, experimenting with anal, turning feet into foreplay, or strapping on a blindfold and taking a paddle — the point is to play.

Because once you realise how many ways there are to fuck outside of the “bedroom basics,” you’ll never look at sex as routine again.