All About Hotwifing: A Guide To Get Into This Trendy And Sexy Lifestyle

There's a new sex trend that's reigniting relationships as more men are actively encouraging their partners to sleep with other people. This trend known as hotwifing is currently a hot topic in sex-positive circles, and men enjoy it since their skill in obtaining a gorgeous wife is affirmed by other men, while the wives and girlfriends love it as it makes them feel beautiful and desired. According to sex educator Anna Richards, hotwifing can be customizable according to the couple's needs and that sometimes, the husband could actively participate by watching or joining his wife and the other man in bed. “Other times, the husband can be elsewhere waiting to share in the details later,” she adds.

If you've always loved watching porn that involves a hotwifing scenario and are thinking about trying it out with your partner, you'll need to have a conversation so that both of you will get a positive experience from it. Ideally, your wife or girlfriend should never feel humiliated while you share them with other men, while you should feel happy and secure while watching her have sex with other people. To ease into this sexy lifestyle, here's how to get into the hotwifing trend.

Roleplay or Dirty Talk a Hotwife Scenario

If both of you aren't quite ready to take the plunge, think about roleplaying or dirty talking a hotwife scenario. Your wife can pretend that she slept with another guy, and she tells you all the dirty details while you're having sex. Encourage her to share more about her “encounter” by asking her questions. Ask her if she had multiple orgasms, if the other man went down on her, or if she enjoyed riding another guy. Ask her to describe her experience in explicit detail, noting the sensations, tastes, and smells to make the scenario seem more realistic. Don’t forget to tell her that you're proud of her and praise her for being such a good wife.

Try Virtual Hotwifing

Thinking about taking things one step further? Consider virtual hotwifing. Find an online sex partner for your wife on video chat sites like InstaCams, then watch your wife flirt and have virtual sex with them. Up the ante by giving your wife or girlfriend a few sex toys that she can use to pleasure herself. You can also talk to the other person and tell them how your wife is so good in bed and that she's really fantastic at giving blowjobs or taking backshots.

If you want to have a virtual threesome, make sure to involve the other person as much as possible. Both of you can take turns praising your wife or giving her instructions so that everyone can have a fun time. Afterwards, give your wife some aftercare, and talk about the things that went well, as well as the things that can be done differently the next time both of you try this out.

Hire an Escort

Ready to watch your wife have sex with other men? You can jump into the deep end by attending a private sex party, then choose someone to sleep with your wife. If you're not up for that, you can always hire an escort and let them have sex with your wife or girlfriend. Tell the escort what you want to achieve, and ask them to roleplay as a successful businessman or a powerful politician while having a tryst with your girl. Sit back and sip some whiskey as you watch your wife getting pleasured, or join in on the fun if you prefer to be an active participant.

Hotwifing can be an exciting way for couples to spice up their relationship. Try these tips to engage in this kink, and always keep communication lines open so you and your wife can have a safe, satisfying, and enjoyable experience.